Love…
Something made for everyone in the world. Unfortunately, it isn't fair to everyone. Agree? Well, I'm not blogging about this because my love life sucks. Actually it's been nothing but a great one! Thanks Akeem! =) The reason I'm blogging is because the people around me keep having problems about their love life. No one is particular…
Why is it that some die too young that they don't get the chance to have someone special in life? Why is it that when some falls in love, it backfires? Why must love be something made with so many sacrifices?
Yes, love is about give and take. Yes, love is something meant to feel. No words in the latest Oxford Dictionary (or any of 'your own' dictionaries for that matter) can define love.
Its just like a work of art in your heart. Something you can admire and something you can only feel. You can express love in beautifully crafted words but it will never come out the way you really want it too… Why is it sometimes like this? Its not fair is it?
Its part and parcel of life I guess.. It's a stage everyone gets to feel; either from their family, friends or even someone special.
Let me tell you a story of a 12-year-old girl who is very pretty. Unfortunately, its heartbreaking to know that a car accident actually rips her away from her life. She never got a chance to love someone special. She never got a chance to share her stories. She never got a chance to snap some pictures with a boy. How unfair right?
I know it's wrong to actually talk about this. I know that this is all God's will but you can't stop a human's mind from asking and trying to clarify her doubts can you?
To those who actually feel like as if you're unwanted and un-cherished. You have to know that not everything is turns out the way you want too. Its either you're too young or too old for someone. But please, never underestimate yourself. There is someone, somewhere out there made especially for you and maybe, just maybe you're a late bloomer in love. Be patient. Like a badge I read on a schoolmate's bag; "I'm playing with all the wrong ones while waiting for Mr. Right" Don’t get me wrong, I'm not trying to ask you to toy around someone's heart but just try to love. Try to understand some others before you come down to a conclusion that you wanna settle down with that somebody.
Plus, don't blame God for making you the way you are. The grass is no greener on the other side. You're a beautiful thing and you have to appreciate yourself before you can get others to see you the way you want them too. View yourself the way you want others to view you. Respect yourself. You don't have to act like someone else just to get someone.. Being true to yourself is all it takes. If that someone truly loves you, he/she will accept and adjust to your environment. Now that's when the commitment comes in. =)
And like Akeem said, not everything happens when you want it too. Welcome to life!
LOVE
`serenade
xo
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